Простой сложный разговор. Модель легкого и эффективного общения - Элисон Вуд Брукс
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Эта книга предлагает научно обоснованный подход к общению. Автор — профессор Гарвардской школы бизнеса Элисон Брукс — более десяти лет занимается исследованием коммуникации, ведет флагманский курс по переговорам и консультирует организации и лидеров. На основе наблюдений за реальными разговорами Элисон Брукс разработала систему TALK — модель, в которой общение представлено как управляемая структура из четырех элементов (темы, вопросы, легкость, доброта), делающих любой разговор понятнее и ценнее. После этой книги вам будет легче говорить. О важном, о сложном, о личном — с кем угодно.
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