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Стремясь к счастью, мы добиваемся успехов — продвижения на работе, повышения статуса и роста дохода. Но вдруг обнаруживаем, что радости нет, жизнь вроде удалась, но не вполне. Почему? Сигехиро Оиси провел масштабное исследование, изучив сотни историй обычных и известных людей, и выяснил: внешний успех не дает настоящего удовлетворения. Только насыщая жизнь опытом, впечатлениями, глубиной их проживания, можно почувствовать себя по-настоящему состоявшимся. Его книга, вошедшая в список Next Big Idea Club, переворачивает привычные представления о благополучии и предлагает альтернативную концепцию — психологически насыщенной жизни. Используя эту идею, вы сможете изменить взгляд на собственный путь, превратить ошибки в источник силы и вернуть себе ощущение подлинной радости.
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