Что делает нас людьми - Леон Виндшайд
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В современном мире человек все чаще опирается на разум, при этом не только игнорируя, но и подавляя свои чувства. Между тем именно чувства делают людей людьми, определяют нашу реальность, влияют на наши действия и решения.
Автор приглашает в путешествие по нашему внутреннему миру и предлагает познакомиться с собственными чувствами. Если нам удастся принять их такими, какие они есть, вместо того чтобы подавлять или осуждать, мы почувствуем себя лучше.
Книга рекомендуется всем интересующимся темой ментального здоровья, желающим контролировать свои чувства и управлять ими, а также понять себя и стать счастливее.
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